BE THE MASTER OF YOUR OWN DESTINY
What if I say you can be whoever the hell you want to be. Sounds exciting right? Hell yess!!
I mean like imagine yourself living the life you have dreamed of and if this dosen't excites you then you have to ask yourself ..what will??
We all have desires. Every single person on this planet wants something.
But does everybody gets whatever they wish for. Uh-uh.. Do they? The answer is No.
Okayyy but... Why does this happens? It's because we wish for it but don't work for it.
Just THINK!!
WHY WE WILL NOT WORK FOR THE THING
WE WANT SO BAD?? ( because we're lazy) `
This happens because we are not clear about our feelings. We are not sure if that is what we truely want. We are just attracted by the result.
This might be a bouncer for some. So let me simplify it.
See the mantra to get what you wish for is to know WHAT YOU ARE WISHING FOR!!!
This might be a double bouncer I guess🤣
So here's the deal.
Next time whenever you wish for something or get a desire to be something you just have to ask yourself WHY DO YOU WANT THIS??
( 1 month later)
I have done a lot of thinking about how to wish for the right thing or how to make a right choice and i have come to a conclusion Now that there is no such right thing.
All you have to do is follow your heart because at the end it's all that matters.
You don't have to be 100% sure that you want this or this is the right thing . It just have to feel right.
After all we are humans our wishes and desires change time to time and all we have to do is to be flexible enough to compete with that.
Change is the only constant.
Making a decision used to be a very tough task for me. That is because I used to overthink everything .
i.e let's suppose I have to make a decision now what will I do is make a list of pros and cons in my head and I would approve to the one that only has pros and no cons either in case of choosing a career or a person and this was because idk I used to think that I can't afford to make a mistake or u know a wrong decision, I HAVE TO BE Right.
And obviously because of this overprotective/ controlling nature of mine I have ruined many good things that could have happened to me.
And it took me 8 months of lockdown and loads and loads and loads of Netflix American web series to realise that🤣🤣
But there's one thing that whatever you choose to do you have to give your 100 % in it just like jenny humphery did in gossip Girl but in the right direction just like dan humphery again in gossip Girl.
Nowadays I am watching gossip Girl 🤣
Dont let society define you.
Just after I have completed my high school i.e 12th there were so many people telling me to choose a path and devote myself to it.
They were asking me to choose but instead they were choosing it for me.
It was like whenever I used to tell them that I want to do this they would tell me almost 100 cons of making that choice and will tell me to u know uhh.. Do a government job instead.
And then they would tell me that you are not making a decision mahika and than I used to doubt myself.
See the problem was i wouldn't like their choice but i was not 100% sure about my decision either. So the wise thing to do here was to agree with them i.e go to college get a degree ( yes I didn't want to go to college either🤣🥴) but still pursue your desires side by side.
All I have is a vivid vision of the life I want in 10 years and I made it a little bit clearer by making this blog post.
I know for sure what I don't want and I have blurred vision of what I want and each step that I take helps me clear the clouds and see the deep blue sky of possibilities and opportunity.
You don't have go all baagi ( rebellious) to pursue your desires/ passion and you just have to be wise enough to know that.
You can be bold, full of passion, strong,opinionated and still be wise and kind as a person. It all depends on you.
Believe in yourself.
As far as I know Believing in yourself is one of the most important factor of being your own master.
Be confident enough that you believe yourself. Being confident dosen't mean you will not have any second thoughts instead it means that you are more than your second thoughts and doubts i.e you believe yourself when no one does through thick and thin.
And... Trust me it's tough well... For an insecure and anxiety prone person like me I used to doubt my decision every single time but I m working on that and I would advise you the same.
Deep down in your heart you know your capabilities. Your choices were all worth it.
Someone out there is willing to be you. To live a life like you do.
I wish I could say trust the destiny/universe. I know it has great plans for you and all that but ...well I don't believe that.
And also why you have to put your destiny in someone else's hands... When you can design your own in a much better way.
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